Tuesday, July 14, 2009

It's not a Big Deal

Really?

The truth is, 1 in every 2.7 men will cheat sooner or later, according to relationship expert Gary Neuman, author of "The Truth About Cheating."

Sometimes men cheat to get out of the relationship, or because they want to leave, but are afraid of being alone. They're attracted to the new girl, but they're afraid she'll dump them, so they keep the wife or girlfriend at home, just in case it doesn't work out. It's cowardly, but common.

Some biologists have proposed a theory that cheating is built right into men.
The idea of just not cheating doesn't seem to occur to some men.

Only 7% of men will do that, and if he's actually confessing, he's either pretty sure you won't leave him over it, or he's done with you.

One Way To Tell if he's Cheating : He's suddenly very suspicious of you.

A lot of women choose to simply walk away. It's the simplest solution and the surest way to be safe. Very often when a man is forgiven for cheating, he takes this as permission to cheat again, and the couple get locked into a pattern. The only way to be certain he knows you won't put up with it, is to walk out the door. Unfortunately, that means you're out there again, looking for that man who won't cheat on you.



1 in 2.7?
That's almost inevitable.
So next question is :

Are u the cheated one or the one he's cheating with?

Our Little Messenger

" kate, doing doing."
"kak fairuz kate, doing doing doing."
ear to ear,
in the same room.
this was years ago. at a raya gathering i think.
i guess we were still in school.

but yesterday, years after;
" kate, doing doing doing."
"kak fay kate, doing doing."
window to window
not in the same room.
here we are.
again, still.

I is very happy.

Monday, July 13, 2009

Alhamdulillah ;)

Happy Birthday Abang.
Congratulations Chris.
Congratulations ME!

Thursday, July 9, 2009

****

i know u know.
so i wouldn't say.
i know u know.
so here i stay.

Thursday, July 2, 2009

~ there

There's something sweet
And almost kind
But he was mean and he was coarse and unrefined
But now he's dear, and so unsure
I wonder why I didn't see it there before

She glanced this way
I thought I saw
And when we touched she didn't shudder at my paw
No it can't be, I'll just ignore
But then she's never looked at me that way before


New and a bit alarming
Who'd have ever thought that this could be?
True that he's no Prince Charming
But there's something in him that I simply didn't see

Monday, June 29, 2009

Wednesday, June 24, 2009

Thursday, June 18, 2009

~ity ; serotonin damper.

i hate this feeling.
i know u hate it too.
do u know i hate it too?

why is it still here?
many things if not all have been rectified.
none of the links are underutilized.
clowns aren't as happy.
stand-ups don't have this much going on.
i suppose a new time zone is invented by now.
serotonin all around.

go away.
please.. just go away.

Monday, June 15, 2009

sambung.

Wednesday Jakarta.
Thursday Bandung.
Friday Bandung.
Saturday Bandung-Jakarta.
Sunday Jakarta-Shah Alam.
Monday?

Monday tidooooo je.. tanak bangun2.. tetibe bangun umah kosong.. smorg tak cuti.. pegi keje.. pegi kelas.. pegi skolah.. pegi kuar jmpe rakan2.. haha!

Thursday, June 4, 2009

Musafir

is in Kuantan today.
tomorrow Terengganu-Kelantan.
Friday Kelantan.
Saturday Kelantan-Terengganu-Kuantan-Shah Alam.
Wednesday Jakarta.
Jalan. Jalan.
Bace doa ;)