Things may be a certain way in your mind but a very different one when it gets out in the open. Often I find myself realizing something new when I share my thoughts with those around me rather than just keeping it to myself. One too many times, I realized how I really feel about a certain issue and it is totally different from what I thought it is. Not all of us are wired the same way but this works for me. To talk it out to sort things out. And I'm really greatful to you and you and you. I love you and you and you.
Went for drinks with the girls last night. One thing for sure, we've grown. Past the phase not a girl not yet a woman. It has been so long since I last lost track of time. But last night I was soo surprised to see my watch strokes 1. I was like
"What? last I check it was only 11pm."
Maybe it was the crowd. Or the frequency that I get this crowd. There were Me, Maya, Sara and Basirah. We get together like, once a year? (barely la). We talked about cultures (of other parts of the world), jobs, studies other than the usual reminisce of the school days. Surrounding tables were replaced with new people and still there we were, going on and on.
The truth is, 1 in every 2.7 men will cheat sooner or later, according to relationship expert Gary Neuman, author of "The Truth About Cheating."
Sometimes men cheat to get out of the relationship, or because they want to leave, but are afraid of being alone. They're attracted to the new girl, but they're afraid she'll dump them, so they keep the wife or girlfriend at home, just in case it doesn't work out. It's cowardly, but common.
Some biologists have proposed a theory that cheating is built right into men.
The idea of just not cheating doesn't seem to occur to some men.
Only 7% of men will do that, and if he's actually confessing, he's either pretty sure you won't leave him over it, or he's done with you.
One Way To Tell if he's Cheating : He's suddenly very suspicious of you.
A lot of women choose to simply walk away. It's the simplest solution and the surest way to be safe. Very often when a man is forgiven for cheating, he takes this as permission to cheat again, and the couple get locked into a pattern. The only way to be certain he knows you won't put up with it, is to walk out the door. Unfortunately, that means you're out there again, looking for that man who won't cheat on you.